Feeling Out of Balance
What is Balance?
Balance is a state where your body, mind, and emotions work in harmony, allowing you to adapt to life’s challenges without becoming overwhelmed or depleted.
How it shows up in your body?
Physically
It means your posture, movement, and body systems function smoothly
Mentally
Your thoughts are clear and focused
Emotionally
You can feel and express emotions without getting stuck in them
All of the above is only a short explanation. I could go in much deeper but it’s just a quick overview to what I’d like to explain here.
True balance isn’t about perfection - it’s about staying centred and resilient, even when things shift around you
Being Out of Balance, how does it show ?
It mainly shows up through Structural, Mental and Emotional Imbalance
Structural Imbalance
Structural imbalance refers to misalignments or dysfunctions in the body’s physical framework - bones, muscles, fascia, joints, and posture. This can be caused by repetitive movements, injuries, poor ergonomics, or prolonged static positions
How it shows up in your body
Uneven posture (e.g., rounded shoulders, tilted pelvis)
Chronic tension or stiffness in certain muscles
Limited range of motion
One side of the body overcompensating for the other
What’s the impact on the body
Circulatory strain: Misalignment can compress blood vessels or nerves
Joint wear: Uneven pressure can accelerate arthritis or cartilage damage
Chronic pain cycle: Pain leads to guarded movement, which deepens the imbalance
Structural Imbalance
Mental Imbalance
Mental imbalance involves overactivity, underactivity, or rigidity in thought patterns, focus, and cognitive processing. It often results from chronic stress, information overload, lack of mental stimulation, or persistent negative self-talk.
How it shows up in your body
Brain fog or poor memory
Racing thoughts or inability to focus
Difficulty making decisions
Overthinking or obsessing on problems
What’s the impact on the body
Stress hormone dysregulation: Elevated cortisol can raise blood pressure, weaken immunity, and disrupt digestion
Sleep disruption: Poor sleep worsens healing, hormonal balance, and brain function
Tension in muscles: The body mirrors mental strain with tight jaw, neck, or shoulders
Emotional Imbalance
Emotional imbalance means being stuck in certain emotional states (e.g., anxiety, anger, sadness) or having unstable, extreme shifts in mood. This can stem from unresolved trauma, unhealthy coping patterns, or lack of emotional processing.
How it shows up in your body
Overreacting to small triggers
Feeling emotionally “numb” or detached
Difficulty expressing or identifying emotions
Mood swings without clear cause
What’s the impact on the body
Autonomic nervous system stress: Frequent “fight-or-flight” activation keeps the body in a state of vigilance
Immune suppression: Chronic negative emotions can impair immune function
Digestive changes: Anxiety or grief can alter gut motility and microbiome health
Somatic symptoms: Emotional pain can manifest as headaches, chest tightness, or stomach issues
How they interact with each other
Everything is deeply connected. For example:
A structural problem (like back pain) can cause mental strain (difficulty concentrating) and emotional stress (frustration, irritability)
Emotional stress can cause muscle tension (structural) and mental distraction
Mental overwork can lead to poor posture and neglect of physical needs
When all three are imbalanced, the body often shows:
Persistent fatigue
Recurring illnesses
Chronic pain without clear injury
Reduced resilience to stress
Why This Matters
Balance is not about perfection - it’s about adaptability. A healthy body -mind system can flex and recover when challenged. Being “Out of Balance” in one area for too long drains energy, narrows coping capacity, and sets the stage for chronic conditions.
Being a practising Dorn Method Therapist, I often see people being Out of Alignment and there is actually so much more that could be done about it. I’ll talk about that one in the next post. Stay tuned.
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